When sitting at the negotiation table with Hamas or Syria, the Western negotiator is in an inferior position. The Arab-Islamic negotiator is well aware of the Western mindset, but most of us in Israel, the US and Europe, know little about how the other side thinks and feels.
Negotiation is not just an art, it is a discipline rooted in understanding people. It demands tactical skill, certainly, but equally a grasp of the other side’s inner world: their values, beliefs, fears, memories, and hopes.
To come to the table without recognizing the other side’s frame of reference is to hold a conversation between parallel worlds - many words, very little understanding.
In the Western mindset, we assume that people act "rationally" - weighing alternatives and costs, seeking outcomes in which "everyone wins". But in the Middle East - especially when facing religious-political actors like Hamas - this assumption is, at best, incomplete and at worst, fundamentally mistaken.
Because the person across from you is not simply an individual with interests. Often, he is an individual shaped by theology and religious interpretation of reality. In other words, there is another actor sitting at the negotiation table: Allah.
Negotiation: Interests vs. Faith
Western negotiation theory rests on a familiar conceptual toolkit: Win-Win (reciprocal benefit); Interests (focus on needs, not positions); Mutual Trust (building credibility and relationship); BATNA - Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement (your fallback if talks fail); ZOPA - Zone of Possible Agreement (the overlap where an agreement is possible).
All of these assume that actors are rational, seek benefit, and bargain based on interests.
Fisher and Ury’s Getting to Yes became a global symbol of interest-based negotiation: set aside rigid positions, identify underlying interests, and generate options for mutual gain. Their model relies on the premise that parties are capable of rational problem solving - an assumption characteristic of Western negotiation thought.
But when you leave the negotiation halls of Harvard and sit at a table in Doha or Cairo, you encounter a different paradigm: there is rationality - but it is rooted not only in material gain, but in faith.
Here, the guiding question is not "what benefits us?" but rather: "what serves the will of Allah?" Political interests become secondary to religious legitimacy - and the entire logic of negotiation is reorganized accordingly.
Why ZOPA collapses against a faith-driven actor
In Western thinking, ZOPA - the Zone of Possible Agreement - is foundational: if there is overlap between interests, a deal is achievable; if there is no overlap, there will be no deal. But with Hamas, ZOPA acquires another layer: Sharia - Islamic law and its interpretation. Meaning: even when there is a political ZOPA, there may be no religious ZOPA. And when the two collide, the religious dimension prevails.
The closest Islamic conceptual parallel is the framework of Maslaha-Mafsada - religious benefit vs. religious harm. Thus, ZOPA with Hamas is not only narrower - it is fluid, shifting constantly, because it depends on religious-spiritual interpretation rather than fixed strategic interests.
A proposal acceptable yesterday may become forbidden today. To a Western negotiator, this appears inconsistent; to Hamas, it reflects fidelity to the divine.
From BATNA to Maslaha
In Western practice, BATNA is the anchor: if the offer on the table is worse than your alternative, you walk away. For Hamas, this entire calculus is subordinated to Maslaha-Mafsadah - religious benefit vs. religious harm. The question becomes: does this action serve the will of Allah?
A central Islamic legal principle states: "Preventing harm takes precedence over attaining benefit". Ibn Taymiyyah (1263-1328), one of Sunni Islam’s most influential jurists, summarized it: "When faced with two evils that cannot both be avoided, one must choose the lesser to prevent the greater". In negotiation language: one must preserve faith capital, even at a significant political cost.
For example, after the 2014 "Tzuk Eitan" operation, Hamas agreed to a ceasefire brokered by Egypt - but framed it not as compromise, but as Hudna: a temporary, religiously permitted pause for rest and reorganization, not an abandonment of jihad.
In other words: not a political concession, but a legally sanctioned religious maneuver within the Maslaha framework.
"There is no solution except Jihad"
Article 13 of Hamas’s 1988 Charter states: "There is no solution to the Palestinian problem except through jihad. International initiatives, proposals, and conferences are all a waste of time." This is not a slogan. It is a theological anchor that predetermines the boundaries of negotiation.
Thus, when Western negotiators speak of "compromise", the religious discourse may interpret it as an impermissible surrender of a divine obligation.
Success, therefore, is not measured first in material or political gains, but in alignment with divine will - with worldly benefit evaluated afterward and only if it fits religious command.
Negotiation, from this perspective, is not an exchange of interests but a test of spiritual fidelity. Often, therefore, the negotiation is not about solutions but about purity of intention (Niyya).
Messaging or doctrine? - 2017 as case study
In 2017, Hamas issued an updated policy document. Abroad, many interpreted it as evidence of ideological moderation - less religious, more national. In reality, it was a shift in messaging and framing, not in foundational doctrine.
The vocabulary expanded, but the ideological spine - particularly commitment to jihad - remained intact. In negotiation psychology, framing may influence perception without altering substance. That is precisely what happened here.
Spiritual loyalty - not just practical trust
Western negotiation is built on mutual trust - credibility, consistency, transparency, and interpersonal reliability. If a party keeps its word, trust increases. It is behavior based: you did what you said - you are trustworthy.
But for Hamas, the prerequisite for negotiation is not practical trust, but spiritual loyalty: adherence to religious authority and divine will. The core question is not "is this proposal beneficial?" but "is it faithful to Allah?" Thus, what seems "reasonable" or "efficient" may be rejected not because it lacks utility, but because it lacks religious legitimacy.
This also explains why positions acceptable yesterday may be rejected today: not because interests changed - but because religious interpretation changed. To Western eyes this appears inconsistent; to a believer, it reflects unwavering devotion to a higher principle.
To understand is not to justify
In the Middle East, negotiation is not merely a technique - it is a dialogue between worldviews. The West speaks the language of utility; religious actors speak the language of loyalty. Thus, aiming for Win-Win is insufficient.
Sometimes, the only viable agreement is "Win-Iman" - one that satisfies religious legitimacy before political practicality.
This is not identification or endorsement. It is intellectual empathy: the ability to understand the logic behind the other side’s behavior even without accepting it.
When Allah sits at the negotiation table, the cards matter - but interpretation matters more. In a landscape where faith shapes the rules of the game, the Western negotiator cannot afford to ignore the religious logic underlying it.
To negotiate effectively, it is not enough to analyze the cards - one must understand the hand that lays them. Whoever understands this is not abandoning his principles; he is simply choosing to engage reality rather than imagination. And only there - in that space of clarity - does genuine influence become possible.
Yosef Mahfoud Levi is a negotiation and interpersonal communication specialist in the Arab-Islamic culture. He lectures on Arabic language, culture & Islam at Reichman University and in the Department of Arabic at Bar-Ilan University.